Els
I see you're problem now and while i dont approve of people spying on their partners I do understand your desire to do something like this.
If you want I can teach you how to block those bondage sites on your husbands laptop. He wont be aware they are being blocked and to all intents and purposes it will just look like those sites have gone down.
Unfortunately it will mean you'll have to update this file every time he discovers a new site though.
What computer Os is he using? win98, windows millennium or windows xp... or is he on a MAC